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How important is your mitzvah?

 

How important is your mitzvah?

Do you ever feel that your mitzvah is small compared to say a holy person’s mitzvah? Did you ever not do a mitzvah because you felt unworthy? Ever do a mitzvah and feel like you were a hypocrite?

Is there a difference between a great Rabbi’s mitzvah and my own mitzvah? Is Moses’ putting on Teffilin superior to the Teffilin of Jack Cohen? Is the lighting of the Shabbat candles by Devorah the prophetess greater then Melanie Goldberg’s?

There are 2 parts to every mitzvah, the body and the soul, the action and the intention, the deed and the passion. The body, action and deed part of the mitzvah is the same for every Jew.  Moses and Jack, Devorah and Melanie, their mitzvot are identical, just as holy and just as perfect.

The soul, intention and passion of the mitzvah is individualized. Some know more then others, some are more passionate then others and some do it with more soul. And in this area there is a big difference between each one of us.

Obviously both parts of the mitzvah are important and necessary; however which part is most critical? The Torah is clear that the most critical part is the deed, the action part of the mitzvah. And in this most critical part all Jews are equal.

Why is the deed part of the mitzvah the most critical? On the one hand the deed is the lowest part of who we are and the simplest, on the other hand deed is connected to the deepest part of who we are.

The deepest part of our love can be expressed through action, through a hug and a kiss.

An action can be purer and more innocent then our other faculties. It is also the great equalizer, it is greater then our differences. A child or an adult, wise or ignorant people are equally capable of it.

G-d is neither spiritual nor physical, so being spiritual is not any closer to G-d then doing something physical. When we do something spiritual or physical because G-d desires it then we are getting closer to G-d. To create the physical was a deeper experience for G-d then creating the spiritual, (we need an entire article to explain this one). When we connect to G-d through the physical we are actually connecting to a deeper part of G-d. That is why it is the great equalizer. This is also why the deed of the mitzvah is so critical. So it does not matter if you know a lot or a little, have the passion or the soul. The body of the mitzvah and the deed of the mitzvah is perfect and the same as if it was being done by the greatest and most righteous Jew. G-d gets equal pleasure, joy and satisfaction from our mitzvot as he did from Moses’ or any other of our holy and righteous patriarchs and matriarchs. It could even be argued that He gets more pleasure from our simple performance of the mitzvot. So even if you feel that your mitzvah is not as special as someone else’s, in G-d’s eye it is just as special. Even if you feel like a hypocrite you are not.

I once had a conversation with someone regarding doing mitzvot and he responded by saying that he was not a good Jew and therefore he would ruin any mitzvah that he performed, he would rather I do the mitzvah for him since I would do it right. I explained to him that you cannot mess up the mitzvah. As long as you do it according to Jewish tradition you are fine, your own personal standing and level has no affect on the body and deed of the mitzvah.

The soul and passion of the mitzvah although not critical are very important and each of us should study and inspire our selves to perform the mitzvot with more soul and intent, but that should never stop us from giving G-d an eternal gift and pleasure. Since every mitzvah we do creates an eternal bond between us and G-d, and every bond between us and G-d gives G-d unlimited pleasure, then it follows that every time we do a mitzvah we are giving G-d an eternal gift and pleasure. Wow! Who knew that we in our unrefined condition could achieve so much.

As a matter of fact, by Jewish Law we are supposed to stand up out of respect when another Jew is performing a mitzvah, regardless if he/she is a very knowledgeable, has passion etc. the reason is because when we do a mitzvah G-d is now connecting with that person, through the act of the mitzvah alone this connection is achieved and since this connection is the same for every Jew therefore we need to stand for any Jew who performs a mitzvah.

So next time you have an opportunity to do a mitzvah, (every minute there is another mitzvah we could be performing), think about how regardless of how you feel, what you know, what spiritual level you are at, you can still perform as perfect a mitzvah as any other Jew that ever lived or will ever live. Don’t wait, you can start doing more mitzvot right now. And when you have more time you can work on the soul of the mitzvah.

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Zalman Marcus

How Jewish Are You?

 

How Jewish Are You?

Do you ever feel like you are more or less Jewish then someone else? Do you think some Jews think that they are more Jewish then you? How Jewish are you?

This is a question that strikes a deep cord among many Jews. Many times we feel judged or labeled by others as not being as Jewish as we should be or as Jewish as them. Or many times we feel guilty about not being as Jewish as we should. What is the Jewish (not just the opinion of your Jewish neighbor) perspective?

For starters I would like to clarify some terms; being Jewish has nothing to do with being a practicing Jew. Practice does not equal Jewish and non practice does not equal not Jewish. Practice is practice and Jewish is Jewish.

Now that we got that out of the way now let us resume. So how Jewish are you? The answer is as Jewish as any other Jew. You can’t be more or less Jewish. You can practice more or less, you can observe at different levels, you can believe differently, but being Jewish is like being pregnant, either you are or you are not.

And if you are Jewish, then you are just as Jewish as Moses, Miriam or any other Jewish person throughout the ages.

That is part of the meaning that we are the chosen people. It means that our Jewishness was chosen by G-d not by us. Although we were happy to become Jewish, it was not our choice but rather G-d’s choice. Now what that means in simple terms is, that if you chose to be Jewish then your choice might be different then say Moses’ choice, after all his choice is more informed and probably a lot deeper then yours or mine. So if we had only chosen G-d then there would be differences in our Jewishness. Some Jews would be more Jewish then others. But that is not what happened at Mount Sinai, G-d chose us and when G-d chooses there is no difference between you, me or Abraham and Sara. From G-d’s perspective we are all equally chosen and therefore equally Jewish. As for the full meaning of what it means to be chosen that will have its own essay.

Now what you do with your Jewishness is up to you. But no matter what you do or don’t do your Jewishness stays the same. A Jew who does not practice any part of Judaism is just as Jewish as Maimonides or queen Esther.

I have encountered many Jews who don’t think like this and think that somehow their practice or lack thereof effects their being Jewish, that somehow they are less Jewish. Regardless of membership status, affiliation, knowledge of Hebrew, level of practice or whether you celebrated your B Mitzvah, a Jew is a Jew is a Jew.

When people begin to confuse practice/belief and being Jewish it becomes very divisive. As the old joke goes (I heard it from Dennis Prager), we Jews have a unique way of labeling other Jews, if he is more religious then me he is a fanatic and if he is less religious then me, then he is not Jewish.

We are one people, with one heart, one Torah and one land.

There is no reason to create division among Jewish people. And certainly no reason to feel even one tiny bit less Jewish then you really are. Judaism makes a very powerful statement regarding every single Jew, “Kol Yisroel… Every Jew has a protion in the world to come”, yes every single Jew. In the prophets we read that G-d says, “The nation that I have created brings me praise”, every Jew just by being alive brings G-d praise.

The Holocaust was a very tragic and sad time for our people. One of the lessons we can learn from this sad part of our history, is how a Jew is a Jew no matter what. The Nazis, may their name be erased, treated all Jews the same.

One of the ways we can remember the holocaust is by showing and practicing Jewish unity. Treating other Jews with love, respect and kindness, regardless of their level of observance or affiliation.

Another way to remember is by joining us on April 18, at 11:30am to hear Rose De Liema and her story of survival.

You can also attend our next JLI course; Beyond Never Again, How the holocaust speaks to us today which begins on Monday evening, April 26 or on Tuesday morning, April 27. Go to www.myjli.com to sign up.

Some final thoughts: If I am as Jewish as the greatest of Jews, what does that mean for me? How does that impact the way I see myself and the way I act in my day to day life? How comfortable am I with who I am? What is my responsibility to my own Jewishness? How does this change the way I view my Rabbi? Other Jews?

Shabbat Shalom

Rabbi Zalman Marcus

 

When It’s Time to Run Away

 

When It’s Time to Run Away


Have you ever felt the need to runaway, to escape? Is there something in your life that you need to runaway from? How do you know if you need to escape?
A personal family story:

My Grandfather lived in Poland when Germany attacked Poland during WWII. With the Germans advancing him and his father, sister and brother moved towards the Russian border. When Poland was split between the Germans and the Russians they ended up on the Russian side. Since they were Polish citizens they were sent, together with many other Polish Jews, to Siberia to a labor camp. Now my grandfather, his family and most of the group were very observant and revered the holiness of the Shabbat. They were horrified to find out that the Russians had no intention of giving them any break for Shabbat. When someone in the group tried to protest he was immediately put to death. With no other choice they worked Shabbat. As they worked they prayed by heart, sang Shabbat songs and tried their best to create a Shabbat atmosphere. This went on for years, finally they were released and they traveled to the south part of Russia where it was safer and many Jews were gathering there. Since my grandfather was young he was drafted by the government to continue working in a labor camp in the area, and once again he was forced to work on Shabbat. One Friday night he ran away from the labor camp and walked the whole night until he was able to rejoin his family. When he arrived they were shocked. It was very dangerous to run away from your labor camp, he was now a fugitive and would have to live in hiding and fear. His father asked him why he ran away. He answered that he had forgotten that it was Shabbat, and then he knew he had to run away. He stayed with his family and joined the effort to help getting Jews out of Europe and was very successful in saving thousands of lives as well as his family and his own.

So why did he run away? Shabbat obviously was very important to him, but yet he worked on Shabbat, what happened that made him risk his life?

When he was working on Shabbat he knew who he was and who knew that it was Shabbat, but when he forgot it was Shabbat he realized that he was beginning to forget who he was and he knew it was time to run away.

When you know who you are and what you stand for, what you believe in and what your life is all about then you are free, even if you don’t have the liberty to live that way.

When you start to lose your identity, when you begin to forget who you are and what you are here for, then it is time to run away. To run back home and reconnect to your source, your heritage, your tradition and your purpose.

Now the connection to Passover; At the Seder we read why we eat matzah, that the Jews were rushed out of Egypt and we did not have enough time to let the dough rise and so they became matzah. On a deeper level the Jews were running away. Collectively the Jews were at a critical state, they were beginning to forget who they were and what their purpose here on earth was. They had to run away to save their soul.

This year as we eat our matzah we too need to examine our lives and determine if there are areas of our life that we need to run away from as they are causing us to forget who we are. We need run away from the slavery of our own minds, hearts, fears and materialism. We need to run home, back to our childhood, back to a time when our identity was clear, when we knew who we were as a people, as a nation, as Jews.

Until we bring about the time of Moshiach, about which it states that we not run from our current exile but rather we will leave in a relaxed and comfortable way, after reconnecting with our source we will have no need to run, we will be home. And that is one of the reasons why we recline at the Seder. Reclining means that we are comfortable in our own skin, not uptight like sitting. We recline to show that we are free, truly relaxed and comfortable in our own Jewish identity and purpose. May we all truly experience this together and forever be free of all those things that we need to run away from.

Shabbat Shalom and Happy Passover

Rabbi Zalman Marcus

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